Three Legendary Voices Transforming Devotion into a Timeless Hymn of Affection

Sometimes, magic happens when the stars align. For years, fans dreamed of what it might sound like if three of the most distinctive voices in music — Dolly Parton, Linda Ronstadt, and Emmylou Harris — came together on one project. Each was already a legend, each commanding respect in country, folk, and rock music alike. That dream became reality in 1987 with the release of their collaborative Trio album, a masterpiece that surpassed every expectation. Among its many highlights was a rendition of the classic “To Know Him Is to Love Him” — a song that, in their hands, became something truly transcendent. This wasn’t simply a cover; it was a rebirth, and their version soared to #1 on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart.

The song’s history is as poignant as its melody. Written by a young Phil Spector in 1958, long before his Wall of Sound era, it was inspired by the inscription on his father’s tombstone: “To Know Him Was To Love Him.” Spector channeled those words into a tender ballad of devotion, recorded by his group The Teddy Bears. With its innocence and sincerity, the original topped the pop charts, becoming a timeless anthem of teenage love and longing.

Fast forward nearly three decades, when Parton, Ronstadt, and Harris — no longer rising stars but seasoned artists — approached the song with a lifetime of experience behind them. Their friendship and mutual respect had laid the foundation for the Trio project, and when they chose to record “To Know Him Is to Love Him,” it became less about nostalgia and more about transformation. The simple lyrics — “To know, know, know him is to love, love, love him / And I do, and I do, and I do” — took on new depth in their hands, reflecting not just young infatuation, but a richer, more enduring sense of devotion.

Listening to their version is like hearing three different worlds converge in harmony. Dolly Parton’s clear Appalachian tone, Linda Ronstadt’s crystalline strength, and Emmylou Harris’s hauntingly graceful voice weave together seamlessly. The result is otherworldly. Where the Teddy Bears once offered youthful innocence, these three women conveyed wisdom, tenderness, and a shared understanding born from years of life and love. The “him” of the song becomes universal — representing not just romantic love, but any profound connection, whether with a partner, a friend, or even an ideal worth cherishing.

The impact of the Trio album was immense, earning a Grammy Award and leaving a legacy that continues to inspire. Their rendition of “To Know Him Is to Love Him” remains a shining example of what happens when great artists set aside individuality for the sake of pure collaboration. It is more than a performance; it is a testament to harmony — in music and in human connection. To this day, hearing their voices blend feels like eavesdropping on a sacred, intimate conversation, one that carries the timeless truth: to truly know someone is, indeed, to love them.

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