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HENDERSONVILLE, TENNESSEE. SEPTEMBER 15, 2003. FOUR MEN IN DARK SUITS STOOD UP IN A CHURCH FULL OF LEGENDS AND TRIED TO SING GOODBYE TO THE MAN WHO HAD PUT THEM ON HIS TOUR BUS IN 1964 AND NEVER REALLY LET THEM GO. The Statler Brothers had been Johnny Cash’s opening act for eight years. He had introduced them on stages from London to Las Vegas. He had bailed them out of contracts and into better ones. When Cash died on September 12, June Carter only six months ahead of him, the Statlers were not asked to perform — they asked. They chose “We’ll Meet Again Sweetheart,” an old hymn Cash used to hum on the bus. Don Reid started the first verse alone. Harold came in on the harmony, and his voice cracked on the second line. He stopped. He looked down at the casket. Phil Balsley reached over and put a hand on his shoulder without looking at him. Jimmy Fortune picked the line up where Harold left it. Don kept going. The four voices that had filled arenas for forty years finished that song the way brothers finish a sentence for each other when one of them cannot. Years later, none of the four men could agree on who sang which line at the end. Don thought he had carried the last verse alone. Jimmy was certain he and Phil had taken it together. Harold, before he passed in 2020, told an interviewer something different — and what he said about that final note has stayed with the people in that pew ever since. Who was the person you couldn’t finish saying goodbye to — and what song, what word, did you leave hanging in the air?