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NASHVILLE NEVER FULLY UNDERSTOOD HOW BIG HE WAS — HARARE, ZIMBABWE, 1997.He walked onto a stage in Zimbabwe and 10,000 Africans sang every word of “You’re My Best Friend” back to him. He was the only American country star who ever bothered to tour the continent. When he died in 2017, a Kenyan journalist wrote the obituary that Nashville never thought to write.Nobody in America realized what Don Williams was outside of America. While Garth Brooks was filling stadiums in Texas and Alan Jackson was headlining the CMAs, the Gentle Giant — 17 #1 country hits, CMA Male Vocalist of the Year 1978 — was quietly the most popular country singer in Zimbabwe, Kenya, Nigeria, Ghana, Uganda, Ethiopia, Malawi, Sierra Leone, Tanzania, Zambia, Namibia, and South Africa. In 1997 he flew to Harare and recorded two concerts that became the film Into Africa. The footage shows something American country music had never seen: thousands of Black fans in Zimbabwe singing Lord, I Hope This Day Is Good word-for-word in an accent Don Williams had never heard before. Kenyan country singer Sir Elvis Otieno later told American journalists that Don Williams had been on Kenyan radio since the 1970s — more consistently than he had ever been on American country radio. When Williams died in September 2017, the most quoted tribute did not come from Nashville. It came from a Kenyan satirist named Ted Malanda, writing for The Standard in Nairobi: A moment of silence for the thousands of Kenyan kids who were conceived with Don Williams crooning in the background. Nashville mourned a hit-maker. Africa mourned a voice that had been the soundtrack to two generations of love, marriage, and grief across an entire continent the country music industry had never bothered to notice.What does it mean to be a legend in a place your own country does not know you went?

THE STATLER BROTHERS LEFT JOHNNY CASH’S ROAD SHOW IN 1972 — AFTER 8 YEARS SINGING BESIDE HIM FROM FOLSOM PRISON TO THE ABC NETWORK. 2 years later, Lew DeWitt and Don Reid wrote a thank-you letter to every audience that had believed them without Cash standing beside them. Lew sang the high tenor. Nobody ever replaced that voice. Nobody in 1964 thought four guys from Staunton, Virginia could stand on their own. The Statler Brothers had walked into their first Johnny Cash tour in March of that year as the opening act — and stayed for eight. They sang on the live album from Folsom Prison in 1968. They appeared every week on The Johnny Cash Show on ABC from 1969 to 1971. Cash had given them everything: a stage, a record deal at Columbia, an audience. And then in 1972 they walked away. Lew DeWitt was already sick — Crohn’s disease had been eating at him since adolescence, forcing cancellations, hospital visits, surgeries. But he kept singing the tenor part that made the harmony work. In June of 1974 he sat down with Don Reid and wrote Thank You World — a song addressed to every listener who had stayed with them after the Man in Black was no longer on the stage beside them. The song reached #31 on the country chart. It was never the biggest hit they had. But listen to the recording: Lew’s tenor floats above the other three voices like a prayer. Seven years later the Crohn’s would force him to leave the group he had founded. He would try a solo career. He would die in 1990 at 52. Jimmy Fortune would take his place, and sing beautifully. But the voice on “Thank You World” — the voice saying thank you to the audience that had stayed — that voice never came back. What does it mean for a man to say thank you to the world — when he already knows the world is about to take him from it?

HE WROTE IT ABOUT A LOVE HE COULD NEVER NAME — NASHVILLE, 1971. HE GAVE THE SONG TO WAYLON JENNINGS FIRST. 25 years later, The Highwaymen sang it together — Kris Kristofferson, Willie Nelson, Waylon Jennings, Johnny Cash. Four legends, four marriages, four catalogs of heartbreak. And not one of them ever said who the song was really for. Nobody in Nashville wrote love songs the way Kris Kristofferson wrote love songs. He had the vocabulary of a Rhodes Scholar and the regret of a man who had left a wife and two children to chase music. In 1971, he handed a new song to Waylon Jennings — Loving Her Was Easier Than Anything I’ll Ever Do Again — and Waylon recorded it first. Then Kris cut his own version for The Silver Tongued Devil and I. The song did not name the woman. It did not have to. Every line was about a love that had already slipped through — I have seen the morning burning golden on the mountain in the skies… she smiled upon my soul as I lay dying. Kris never confirmed who she was. A year later he married Rita Coolidge. They had a daughter. They divorced in 1980. And then, in 1990, The Highwaymen put the song on their second album — four men in their fifties who had each buried too many loves to count, singing the same chorus in unison. Waylon had been through two marriages before Jessi. Cash had left Vivian for June and spent decades haunted by it. Willie had been married four times. Kris had been married twice. And the line they all sang together was the one nobody needed to explain: Loving her was easier than anything I’ll ever do again. The song was not about one woman. It was about every woman the four of them had known and lost. What does a song become — when four men who wrote their own lives in heartbreak sing the same chorus and mean entirely different things by it?